Recently, a dearest friend of mine lost her mother. She passed away peacefully in her sleep during the wee hours of the morning.
It was one day before the wedding day of another dearest friend of mine as she embarks on her new journey as a wife.
I was reflecting on how we go through endings and beginnings every single day on earth and shared this short poem in my facebook page:
Today a dearest friend’s mother passed away.
Tomorrow, another dearest friend is getting married.
One will begin life without a mother,
While the other will begin life with a husband.
Two new beginnings,
Two totally different circumstances.
The ending of a soul in earth,
And the ending of singlehood.
Life in dunya, filled with beginnings and endings.
An ending brings a beginning of something.
With a beginning, there is an end.
And our ultimate end – is back to Him.
“Therefore glory be to Him in Whose hand is the kingdom of all things, and to Him you shall be brought back.” – Yaseen, 83
It’s true isn’t it? One day our life in this world is going to end and we will move on to the world that we came from, to a world that is eternal.
Speaking about beginnings, currently I am going through a new beginning (MashaAllah, who knew a career switch would be really t-o-u-g-h). Another thing about beginnings is the importance of breaking out of your comfort zone and have the guts to learn new things. For my newly wedded friend, she has to adapt to having a new person in her life 24/7 and her new responsibilities as a wife. For my friend who has lost her mum, she will have to learn to slowly deal with her own emotions of grief – as well as her father’s.
May Allah bring us through our different personal challenges and may these tests that He has presented us with, only aim to bring us closer to Allah s.w.t. InsyaAllah ameen.